Resetting Routines

How to Reset Routines After Winter Break

January 06, 20262 min read

How to Reset Routines After Winter Break (Without the Stress)


Why This Time of Year Can Be Tough

Returning from winter break can be overwhelming for many children—but especially for those with disabilities, sensory differences, or learning challenges. The sudden switch from relaxed days at home to early wake-ups, crowded classrooms, and structured learning can cause dysregulation, anxiety, and even behavioral regression.

As a parent, you may notice your child struggling with:

  • Morning transitions and sleep disruption

  • Increased meltdowns or shutdowns

  • Trouble focusing or following directions

  • Heightened anxiety or clinginess

The good news? A gentle, flexible routine reset can help your child feel safe, supported, and ready to re-engage—without creating unnecessary pressure on you.


5 Practical Tips to Rebuild Routine (Gently!)

1. Start with the Body: Sleep & Sensory Reset

Before jumping into academic expectations, focus on helping your child’s body adjust:

  • Reintroduce bedtime routines a few days before school starts

  • Use calming sensory tools (weighted blankets, fidgets, or sound machines)

  • Keep mornings predictable and quiet to avoid overstimulation

2. Visual Schedules & Checklists

Children with executive function challenges often benefit from structure they can see and touch.

  • Use simple visual schedules (printed or drawn) for morning and evening routines

  • Let your child check off steps like brushing teeth or packing their bag—this builds independence and reduces power struggles

3. Review What to Expect at School

Talk through:

  • What the classroom will look like

  • Which staff will be there

  • What activities might happen the first few days
    If your child has a communication device or social story binder, update it with fresh visuals about school re-entry.

4. Ease In, Don’t Jump In

The first week back isn’t the time to enforce perfection.

  • Focus on connection over compliance

  • Praise small wins like getting dressed, attending class, or asking for help

  • Remember that fatigue and overstimulation are real—even if they aren’t verbalized

5. Communicate With the School Team

Reach out to your child’s teacher or case manager during the first week back:

  • Ask how transitions are going

  • Share any helpful home strategies

  • Flag any regression, sensory overload, or behavior shifts you're seeing


How This Ties Into IEP & 504 Support

Remember: if your child struggles significantly with transitions, it may warrant:

  • Updated accommodations (like a modified start schedule or transition support)

  • A new Functional Behavior Assessment (FBA)

  • Counseling or social skills supports

  • Goal adjustments in the IEP to reflect seasonal challenges


💬 Final Thoughts

There’s no “perfect” way to jump back into routines—but by being proactive, compassionate, and collaborative, you help your child feel anchored. And when they feel safe, learning can happen again.

You’re not behind—you’re rebuilding. One day at a time.


Need help reviewing your child's IEP or preparing for mid-year changes?
📅 Book a consultation with Whole Child Advocacy


Founder and Owner of Whole Child Advocacy - a company dedicated to empowering parents, students and teachers in the realm of Special Education.

Dominique McLellan

Founder and Owner of Whole Child Advocacy - a company dedicated to empowering parents, students and teachers in the realm of Special Education.

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